We women have a very wrong point of view about our plight I think, we always think that men are the only ones to be blamed for problems of women. Are they?
If we honestly look around us, we will see that its the overzealous help of women that gives men power to exploit women, women on the other part make it easy for men by torturing helpless women.
Let me share a true story, about a woman I am ready to certify in writing, she was a woman with her head in air, she read too much and believed in all the mumbo jumbos written in books, how helpless women are, how sweet, kind full of love their hearts are, they are angels even when they live in hell, brothels. How men are the only enemies of women.
Then her second sister in law arrived at their home, she was welcomed with open arms, with enough love and patience, but from the day one she zeroed her cyclops eyes on her, eyes full of hatred, malice and jealousy, that resulted in her losing her own home, walking out of the home within one year of her sister in law’s arrival, everything turned towards hell, like it does in conservative countries, the further dip into hell came from the helping hands of her own sister and mother, she somehow scrambled out of that pit and when she reached the surface she met an army of spiteful women, who to her utmost amazement were around her, even before her sister in law popped up in her life, it seemed they were controlled by some invisible puppeteer to dance around her, trying to corrupt her, if not corrupt then ruin her reputation- they were all women, because being a small town girl she never mingled with unrelated men, to penetrate her fortress women were needed, and surprise! they were available in dozens! Why these women kept hounding her for years, even before her knowing about them is a question that will most probably never leave her- they tried everything in their power- robbing her off every thing- dignity, love, happiness; drugging, deceiving, spreading scandals, pretending to be her… bizarre activities linked to insanity. Why? Only they know. Most probably they were blackmailed by their agents, who helped them into earning huge amount of money by primitive trade and then whitewashing themselves and marrying innocent men.
All I can say about her that she is not a walking incarnation of devil, just an ordinary person with some vices, some virtues.
Still dont think women are not at all responsible for plight of other women, remember the case of Phoolan Devi? What were the women of that village doing when the men were torturing her? Exactly same thing happened in West Bengal lately, what were the women of that village doing that night? Killing their pathetic souls?
Women! If you actually want to become human beings stop harassing, torturing others- because whether you admit or not, I dont care, I believe that you are the main reason of destruction of other women, not men.