Feeling blessed is totally one’s own choice I think, I have started to think quite sincerely lately. There are two types of people, one who dont have any complaint against God, even if they are total failure in worldly means and there are those who have only complaints against God, sometimes justified sometimes not.
I never expected God to pluck stars for me. Actually I rather believed in doing my bits in my own ways but when real trouble found me God appeared out of nowhere and kept me sane. So no matter how hard I try I wont be able to complain against Gods like so many people I hear, especially if i listen to spiritual songs called bhajans, boy they are legendary sadhaks yet all they have against God is complaints!